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Most Korean men are okay (and even prefer it) if you’re shy and let him talk, pretend to be ‘dependent’ on him for affection or guidance and be more family-oriented than career-oriented.
However, one must remember that "han" is a double edged sword (or coin, if you will).
It has some powerful positive influences too such as goal orientation to the extreme, creativity in music, dramas and movies, powerful "groupthink," extreme optimism, independent streak, national pride/patriotism, strong family and community bonds, etc.
The reason is that Koreans only live together once they’re married.
If you’re looking to hang out with him then he’ll take you to a coffee shop or Korean bar (hof.) If he wants to get even more intimate he’ll take you to a love motel or DVD room (if you’re in Korea.) Or you can simply invite him to your place.
Whereas a Western man might expect you to hold conversation well, show your independence (i.e.