And if we bring the metaphor back to live cam sites, when you have the model all to yourself you get to direct the show.
Tell her what you want to see and how you want to see it and most of the time your wish will be her command - just be polite, don't be a jerk and maybe ask her in the free chat what she does and doesn't do in private so you know before you head in there.
And when I find babes like that - who really provide the service I desire - I make sure to remember them and visit them often and tip them.
I also feel good knowing that many of the cam girls are, in a sense, independent business operators and they get a much larger percentage of the money I spend than they would if they were acting in a porn film.
Sure, there are many underpaid studio girls on cam sites, but, in my opinion, they're better off in a studio.