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Perhaps not nice or courteous but not unfair either.

It’s especially bothersome if his actions suggest exclusivity even if he hasn’t declared so in words…and yet it is still acceptable in my mind for him to keep his profile up, even in this case.

If you have agreed to be exclusive, things are easy: you just need to ask him to take it down!

If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive, I feel this is the point that the relationship would need to reach before you would be in a position of strength to ask that the profile be removed.

As I discussed above, I would recommend against being aggressive or angry.

Still, these are areas you will need him to define.

When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.

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